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Sharing coffees and wine with  likeminded souls is always good remedy for anything. Taking photos, stalking insanely handsome surfers on Instagram, being single together. Seeing the world a little differently than most & choosing paths out of the ordinary.  Following our hearts instead of following the “smart choices”, which society expects of us.

 

Why be ordinary when you can go for extraordinary?

 

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– Wearing all vintage, because vintage is the future, it is unique, it is better for everyone & our planet –

 

 


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Jens left Norway yesterday, I moved all my things out of the apartment we had together here in Oslo, all empty. Strange feeling, leaving it alone.

Moving. Organising. Dealing with to many emotions. Work. Finding peace. Saying goodbye. Crying. Being independent. Feeling lost. Feeling everything  & nothing.  

My emotions are a roller coster with no left over energy for good blog post or social media updates. There is a big cloud hanging over me right now, so hopefully in a few days I will feel lighter and more at ease.

 

 

 


MUCH LOVE

 

 

The end of January & beginning of February is giving us crazy snow storms one day and heavy rain and fog the next. I can easily admit that I´m pretty done with this winter, ready for a new season. I would not mind the snow to stay up in the mountains for a few more months, but the city is ready for spring to blossom. I´m sick of heavy boots, coats and to many layers, I do love layers, but I´m ready for lighter versions of them.

These photos was taken right before the winter really came, and I was still enjoying a bit of warm sun on my face.

 


daydreaming

 

Everything vintage




Your Raging Sun it Burns Beneath My Heartbeat
You Rupture Me,
I build you up
The Core Of You
it Runs so Deep Inside Me
Like Volcanoes We erupt and we subside

 


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Getting used to being alone. sleeping alone. waking up alone. Spending Sundays alone. Doing my shopping alone. Surrounded by people, but still alone. Accepting the strange feeling of just being me. Accepting the loneliness, moving on. embracing the feeling.

 

Finding happiness alone. Being just me alone. Acceptance & giving in. Everyone goes through loneliness in life & we can not truly be happy without being happy alone.

thoughts.

 


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The end of 2017 and the beginning of 2018 have so far been the toughest and most challenging time I can remember to ever have experienced. Growing up is not always fun and easy, sometimes you have to make huge sacrifices and life changing decision. Moving to Norway gave my partner and I new challenges to face, it thought us more about each other and ourselves in both good and also bad ways. Unfortunately did we have to make a heartbreaking decision to go or own ways, we both love each other so much, but simply want very different things in the future. It is so heartbreaking deciding to leave the person you trust the most and have so much love for, because you want that person to be the happiest he can. I thought I could give him that happiness, but the way I see my life take form I can not be that person.


It breaks my heart. It kills me. I feel so empty and hollow. But still I know somewhere, deep inside that we have made the right decision to give each other the freedom to become as happy as we both deserve. Everything happens for a reason, my time with you have been amazing, I cherish every moment of it.

 Love you long time  

 

Sorry for being away for a little while, my creativity is not here right now as I´m going through a really though time personally, I´m hoping to share it with you on the blog soon. Until then I´m probably not going to be updating to much, Ill be back soon.


In the mean time, remember to look after your loved once, make ethical choices, live more green and be mindful towards yourself and your surroundings.

 

Much love


 

The first week of January 2018 has already passed, so I thought I should share my new year resolutions, or I rather call them goals for the new year. I belive that you should not dwell over the past and what you haven´t done, but focus on what you want to do and work towards your goals and create a better future.

CONNECT WITH MY SELF ON A DEEPER LEVEL, THAT INCLUDES IMPROVING MY YOGA AND MEDITION LEVEL, CONNECT MORE WITH LIKMINDED PEOPLE & FIND A PATH THAT CREATES MORE HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE.

 

GET OUT OF THE HOUSE A BIT MORE.

 

CONTINUE IMPROVING ALL THE LITTLE THINGS I CAN FOR THE ENVIORNMENT & USE SOCIAL MEDIA TO CREATE MORE AWARENESS FOR BETTER WAYS TO LIVE.

 

BECOME A VOLUNTEER FOR A SOCIAL GROUP/CAUSE THAT I FIND IMPORTANT.

 

 


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Hi lovelies, I´m back in Oslo, working for a few days after a few nice days spent with family. I love being home enjoy my childhood home and just doing nothing really. Christmas is not a holiday I´m very found off, but I do like being together, having days off and the christmas lights are pretty nice now during dark days. I just wanted to give a quick summary of a few of my favourite gifts, as I did receive a few, thankfully almost just things I needed or actually did really want.

As I´m trying to lead a more non materialistic lifestyle, I do still think it is ok to want things to a certain extent.  All though I personally believe most things will not make you much happier.

A FEW FAVOURITES 

 

 


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Hi lovelies, winter is here, and it is still a long time to go until spring time. Winter here in the north is very long, dark and from time to time moody, way worse than I actually could remember.
Therefore I see the importance of setting goals, which will help keep my motivation up and somehow pull me through during moody periods.

 

I´ve decided that winter time requires less goals than the other seasons, as the season is much more challenging for you, so instead of focusing on to many goals, focus on a few and really work towards them.


MY GOALS

 

Do yoga three times a week, sign up for yoga classes at a yoga studio after christmas & meditate 3 times a week.

On my days off  really listen to my body giving it the nurture it needs & get at to see some day light and breath fresh air, even if it is only for a little bit.

Save a decided amount of money, as I do have a goal for the next year, that I´m not going to share until I´m sure I will be able to do it.

 

 


If you like me, find the winter long and daunting set yourself some goals including one that is at the end of the winter, it can be rewarding yourself to something you really want to to, see or need. Then  you have something to work towards and you can see yourself getting closer to the goal, especially on difficult days.

 

 


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usually I do a “Favourite moments of the month” post every month, but to be honest I really dont feel that there is much to write about for November… I have been going through my first real autumn / winter in five years, it has really taken the energy out of me completely, pulling me deep down.

I know it is a saying that here in Norway you get slightly depressed during winter, all though I have never really experienced it myself, until now. It has been really though for me to move back home, adapting back to “Norwegian habits”. I almost feel like an immigrant in my own country, which is a bit of a strange and weird feeling.

 

Dealing with all the changes, then especially the weather it has not been an easy month and there is still a long way until spring. I´m trying to deal with as good as I can, therefore I decided to share it on the blog, it feels better writing it down for some reason.

 

I tell myself there is something to be happy about everyday

I get out to see the little bit of sun that I can when I have the time

I eat food that makes me feel good

I do yoga & meditate

I`m trying to make plans / something to look forward too

 


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