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Getting used to being alone. sleeping alone. waking up alone. Spending Sundays alone. Doing my shopping alone. Surrounded by people, but still alone. Accepting the strange feeling of just being me. Accepting the loneliness, moving on. embracing the feeling.

 

Finding happiness alone. Being just me alone. Acceptance & giving in. Everyone goes through loneliness in life & we can not truly be happy without being happy alone.

thoughts.

 


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The end of 2017 and the beginning of 2018 have so far been the toughest and most challenging time I can remember to ever have experienced. Growing up is not always fun and easy, sometimes you have to make huge sacrifices and life changing decision. Moving to Norway gave my partner and I new challenges to face, it thought us more about each other and ourselves in both good and also bad ways. Unfortunately did we have to make a heartbreaking decision to go or own ways, we both love each other so much, but simply want very different things in the future. It is so heartbreaking deciding to leave the person you trust the most and have so much love for, because you want that person to be the happiest he can. I thought I could give him that happiness, but the way I see my life take form I can not be that person.


It breaks my heart. It kills me. I feel so empty and hollow. But still I know somewhere, deep inside that we have made the right decision to give each other the freedom to become as happy as we both deserve. Everything happens for a reason, my time with you have been amazing, I cherish every moment of it.

 Love you long time  

 

Sorry for being away for a little while, my creativity is not here right now as I´m going through a really though time personally, I´m hoping to share it with you on the blog soon. Until then I´m probably not going to be updating to much, Ill be back soon.


In the mean time, remember to look after your loved once, make ethical choices, live more green and be mindful towards yourself and your surroundings.

 

Much love


 

The first week of January 2018 has already passed, so I thought I should share my new year resolutions, or I rather call them goals for the new year. I belive that you should not dwell over the past and what you haven´t done, but focus on what you want to do and work towards your goals and create a better future.

CONNECT WITH MY SELF ON A DEEPER LEVEL, THAT INCLUDES IMPROVING MY YOGA AND MEDITION LEVEL, CONNECT MORE WITH LIKMINDED PEOPLE & FIND A PATH THAT CREATES MORE HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE.

 

GET OUT OF THE HOUSE A BIT MORE.

 

CONTINUE IMPROVING ALL THE LITTLE THINGS I CAN FOR THE ENVIORNMENT & USE SOCIAL MEDIA TO CREATE MORE AWARENESS FOR BETTER WAYS TO LIVE.

 

BECOME A VOLUNTEER FOR A SOCIAL GROUP/CAUSE THAT I FIND IMPORTANT.

 

 


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Hi lovelies, I´m back in Oslo, working for a few days after a few nice days spent with family. I love being home enjoy my childhood home and just doing nothing really. Christmas is not a holiday I´m very found off, but I do like being together, having days off and the christmas lights are pretty nice now during dark days. I just wanted to give a quick summary of a few of my favourite gifts, as I did receive a few, thankfully almost just things I needed or actually did really want.

As I´m trying to lead a more non materialistic lifestyle, I do still think it is ok to want things to a certain extent.  All though I personally believe most things will not make you much happier.

A FEW FAVOURITES 

 

 


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Hi lovelies, winter is here, and it is still a long time to go until spring time. Winter here in the north is very long, dark and from time to time moody, way worse than I actually could remember.
Therefore I see the importance of setting goals, which will help keep my motivation up and somehow pull me through during moody periods.

 

I´ve decided that winter time requires less goals than the other seasons, as the season is much more challenging for you, so instead of focusing on to many goals, focus on a few and really work towards them.


MY GOALS

 

Do yoga three times a week, sign up for yoga classes at a yoga studio after christmas & meditate 3 times a week.

On my days off  really listen to my body giving it the nurture it needs & get at to see some day light and breath fresh air, even if it is only for a little bit.

Save a decided amount of money, as I do have a goal for the next year, that I´m not going to share until I´m sure I will be able to do it.

 

 


If you like me, find the winter long and daunting set yourself some goals including one that is at the end of the winter, it can be rewarding yourself to something you really want to to, see or need. Then  you have something to work towards and you can see yourself getting closer to the goal, especially on difficult days.

 

 


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usually I do a “Favourite moments of the month” post every month, but to be honest I really dont feel that there is much to write about for November… I have been going through my first real autumn / winter in five years, it has really taken the energy out of me completely, pulling me deep down.

I know it is a saying that here in Norway you get slightly depressed during winter, all though I have never really experienced it myself, until now. It has been really though for me to move back home, adapting back to “Norwegian habits”. I almost feel like an immigrant in my own country, which is a bit of a strange and weird feeling.

 

Dealing with all the changes, then especially the weather it has not been an easy month and there is still a long way until spring. I´m trying to deal with as good as I can, therefore I decided to share it on the blog, it feels better writing it down for some reason.

 

I tell myself there is something to be happy about everyday

I get out to see the little bit of sun that I can when I have the time

I eat food that makes me feel good

I do yoga & meditate

I`m trying to make plans / something to look forward too

 


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We are going into the last month of autumn, the darkest and most miserable one. I have to admit I´m starting to feel the heaviness of shorter days and dropped temperatures. October was not to bad over all, so Ill try staying motived as November slowly surrounds me.


 

Walking dogs at the dog shelter have been a really great little positive happening.

 

Having good friends to talk to & social happenings with them

 

Beautiful weather, I have to say being back in Norway I´m really appreciating those blissful days with rays of sun gently stroking my face.

 

 

 


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Hi lovelies

Happy weekend to everyone, I´m currently sitting at my mums kitchen table, enjoying some hot lemon & ginger water watching all the beautiful colours outside. I´m home for a long weekend, spending time with family, helping my granddad going through some of my grandmas personal belongings. I still have this kind of hope that she is just away for a long holiday, so going through her belongings, is suddenly making it all so real…

 

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The third autumn month is just around the corner, so layer up season are defiantly here and it is just getting colder. Jens took some really nice photos for me the other day, as the light was great, and all the colours were magical. Real autumn is one of the great things I´ve missed these past five years as Sydney autumn is nothing special.


OUTFIT

JUMPER – NORWEGIAN BRAND ARNIE SAY´S
TOP – TAILOR MADE IN THAILAND
BOOTS – SECONHAND BURBERRY BOOTS
PANTS – OLD BOUGHT IN SYDNEY (CANT REM BRAND)
HANDBAG – OLD LV

 

“Coppers, golds, and rusted tones,
Mother Nature’s way of letting go.
They fall and gather one by one,
Autumn is here, summer has gone.

Crunching as I walk through their warm fiery glow,
Nature’s carpet rich and pure that again shall grow,
To protect and shield its majestic tree,
Standing tall and strong for the world to see.”

– Edel T. Copeland

 

 


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I´ve been back in Norway for a little while now, and I´ve started noticing certain things that is different from my lifestyle in Sydney to here in Oslo. Therefore I figured Ill make a little comparison/likes/dislikes from each city. Everywhere has its ups and downs, somehow you cant have it all in one place. Probably one of the reasons we all crave change and adventure? Me personally are to restless to just be settled in one place, I already know that even though I love my country, I will not live here for the rest of my life. I would like to have it as a base, eventually buy property, then venture out to new places.


– SYDNEY LOVE –

The beaches, I do really miss the amazing beaches just a minute away..

All the great health cafes around

Affordable to go out have dinner and get drunk, without pre-drinking

The beautiful harbour

Almost no unnecessary plastic wrapping

– SYDNEY HATES –

The insane heatwaves during the summer

Peoples work ethics, not very impressive

Public transport, so so…

Bad quality on apartments & houses

 


– OSLO LOVE –

All the amazing nature so close by

Good public transport system

Having friends and family close by again

A intimate city vibe

Best living standards

– OSLO HATE –

Junkies and gypsies everywhere, government should organise this better

Food and drinks are so expensive

People still thinks it is all right to wear fur, disgusting and shameful…

WAY TO MUCH PLASTIC, I´m still in shock over the amount of plastic people are using here..


 

Over all Sydney lifestyle and Oslo lifestyle are quite different, but they both have great qualities, no doubt Sydney will always have an important place in my heart. Maybe one day Ill go and live there again, even if only for a short while.

 


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